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Fr. Joseph Chamblain, O.S.M. Pastor

 

2/2/2025 Fr. Joseph Chamblain, OSM
BEING THE ADULT IN THE ROOM

There is a story told about the overnight train that once ran between Chicago and New Orleans on the Illinois Central Railroad called the Panama Limited (named in honor of the opening of the Panama Canal). The train was made up entirely of Pullman sleeping cars, a diner, and a lounge observation car. It made only a few stops along the way and was known for its speed and tight schedule. According to the story, a passenger for Chicago boarding the train in Jackson, Mississippi leaned over to kiss his wife who was standing on the platform. The train started moving at just that instant and it accelerated so rapidly that the man ended up kissing a mule a quarter mile down the track.

 Although this story is certainly not true, it is not as far-fetched as it sounds. Timekeeping was a matter of pride on the Panama Limited. The bosses at the Illinois Central held everyone accountable for it. But what was very appropriate for a crack train in the golden age of trains may not translate so well into our moral life. In a recent syndicated column, Ron Rolheiser, OMI, noted that so often when we think about leading a moral life, we stop at the question, “Is it a sin?” If we avoid doing anything wrong, then we are leading a good moral life (If we are doing our job exactly right, the train will arrive on time). But this is not all that Jesus is asking of us.

Rolheiser points to the passage in the Sermon on the Mount, where Jesus calls us to a “righteousness that exceeds that of the scribes and the Pharisees” (Matt 5:20). “It assumes that we are already living the elementary essentials of morality, the Ten Commandments, and instead Jesus invites us to something beyond those essentials, namely, to be the adult in the room.” Rolheiser says that it is easy to miss the point here, because so often in the Gospels the Pharisees are depicted as pompous hypocrites. Thus, for our righteousness to exceed theirs we only need be sincere in our efforts to keep the commandments and avoid making a public show of our virtue. In fact, Rolheiser says, “Most of the scribes and Pharisees were good, honest, sincere people . . . . . For them, living a good moral and religious life meant keeping the Ten Commandments (all of them!) and being a man or woman who was scrupulously fair to everyone. It meant being a just person.”

What is lacking? According to Rolheiser “The demands of justice still permit us to hate our enemies, to curse those who curse us, and to execute murderers. Jesus invites us to something beyond that, namely, to love those who hate us, to bless those who curse us, and forgive those who kill us.  . . . . It is a sense of morality focused on what is a sin or what is not a sin. Rather it’s a positive invitation beckoning us to reach higher, to transcend our natural impulses, to be more than someone who just keeps the commandments and avoids sin. . . . to be someone who helps the world carry its tension.”

This last phrase struck me as particularly apt for our time. In these tense and confusing times, if we “help the world “carry its tension,” then no one has to be 100% right or 100% wrong. Yes, we can want secure borders, but we don’t have to want families being separated in the process. Yes, we can support taking a chopping block to the sluggish government bureaucracy, but we can resist sacrificing essential services. Yes, we can be compassionate to those struggling with their sexual identity without buying into everything designed to make that trendy. Yes, we can express our support for church teaching, without isolating one teaching and making it grounds for barring someone from receiving communion; Yes, we can share the Good News of Jesus Christ, without belittling the faith or life experience of someone else. Yes, we can be outraged at murderers and still not believe they should be put to death.

Being able to live with the complexities of life and the complexities of life choices means that we cannot just stand on the sidelines pointing fingers. In fact, we may find ourselves being led where we never expected to go.       Quoting Rolheiser, “The question with which we need to challenge ourselves is not, is this a sin . . .  The question with which we need to challenge ourselves is rather, what am I being invited into? Where do I need to stretch myself toward something higher? Am I loving beyond my natural impulses? And more specifically, am I loving those who hate me? Am I blessing those who curse me?”

 

                                                          Fr. Joe

          

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This list includes the last thirteen months of messages.
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2/16/2025   TOGETHER WE BRING HOPE
2/23/2025   THE FUTURE OF LOVE?
1/26/2025   WHAT IS A JUBILEE YEAR?
2/2/2025   BEING THE ADULT IN THE ROOM
2/9/2025   MEANDERING THROUGH FEBRUARY
1/12/2025   GOD PITCHED HIS TENT HERE
1/19/2025   ONE DAY DOWN SOUTH
1/5/2025   A SEASON OF EPIPHANIES
12/29/2024   OPENING UP IN THE NEW YEAR
12/22/2024   AN ADVANTAGE TO BEING SMALL
11/30/2024   HOPE IN THE DARKNESS OF DECEMBER
12/8/2024   A DEEP DIVE INTO CHURCH LEGISLATION
12/15/2024   SOMETHING NEW THAT'S VERY OLD
11/24/2024   WHY WE OBSERVE THANKSGIVING
11/3/2024   HOW ABOUT SOME GOOD NEWS?
11/10/2024   TREADING ON THIN ICE
11/17/2024   TRY TO REMEMBER
9/29/2024   GENERATION TO GENERATION
9/15/2024   OUT OF TOWN ON BUSINESS
9/22/2024   IT'S ALMOST DINNER TIME
10/6/2024   WHAT'S MY CALLING?
10/13/2024   RUNNING THE MARATHON OF LIFE
10/27/2024   AUTUMN AND THE INNER LIFE
10/20/2024   FR. MICHAEL DOYLE, O.S.M. (1938-2024).
9/1/2024   TAKING CARE OF OUR COMMON HOME
9/8/2024   DEMOCRACY ITSELF
8/11/2024   MARY'S FEAST AND OUR FEAST
8/18/2024   HOSPITALITY IS EVERYBODY'S JOB
8/25/2024   FINDING GOD IN A RAILROAD STATION
8/4/2024   NO KETCHUP
7/21/2024   THE GOOD AND THE BAD OF COMPETITION
7/28/2024   HOLDING ELECTIVE OFFICE
7/14/2024   A CENTURY AGO IN RIVER NORTH
7/7/2024   GETTING REAL ABOUT OLD AGE
6/30/2024   DID JESUS HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR?
6/23/2024   ACTING CIVILIZED
6/16/2024   THE JOURNEY OF A LIFETIME
6/9/2024   GOINGS ON AROUND TOWN
6/2/2024   LOST IN WONDER
5/26/2024   SOME STUFF YOU PROBABLY DID NOT KNOW
5/12/2024   LIVING THE PASCHAL MYSTERY
5/19/2024   THE PENTECOST EXPERIENCE
5/5/2024   CELEBRATING MARY'S MONTH
4/28/2024   OUR COMMON VOCATION
4/21/2024   LIFE THROUGH DARKENED GLASSES
3/31/2024   HOW TO AVOID CELEBRATING EASTER
4/7/2024   A SEASON OF CELEBRATION
4/14/2024   A WORLD OF PLASTIC
3/17/2024   APPROACHING THE CITY OF DESTINY
3/24/2024   A WEEK OF PROCESSIONS
3/3/2024   YES THERE IS GOOD NEWS
3/10/2024   MAKING THE HEADLINES
2/18/2024   NOT JUST THE SAME OLD STUFF
2/25/2024   WHAT WE NEED RIGHT NOW
2/11/2024   THE ORIGINAL SOFT ENTRY POINT